Infidelity can be traumatic and is one of the toughest problems in a relationship. While many people are fascinated when they learn of a spouse or partner’s infidelity, others may suspect infidelity due to out-of-the-ordinary actions.

Several behavioral changes, odd acts and odd occurrences that together may help your unhappy premonitions, neither of the following definitely indicates that your partner is cheating on you.

Changes in communication

Communication breakdown is never a positive sign. If you can’t get your husband to communicate (or even argue) with you, if he stops sharing his day with you, or if the words “I love you” are no longer spoken, then there’s most likely a big problem.

Appearance and hobbies

Of course, taking care of yourself and pursuing a new hobby and passion, or even your job, can be a positive thing, but when combined with other suspicious behaviors, the following changes can be a cause for concern.

Change of attitude

Your partner may be experiencing stress at work or other relationships that can result in a change in attitude. Any change in attitude can be a sign of infidelity, but it can also signal other problems.

Lie and avoid

Dishonesty in marriage is a red flag. Avoidance strategies and lies can indicate that your partner is cheating on you.abandonmentIf your partner is showing apathy or lacks interest in the things they enjoy, talk to them to see if there are other reasons for the engagement change.